Once the door to reunion is opened it is difficult to move back to the old ways of separation. The momentum swings towards expansion as both parties feel served and revel in the new frequencies of supported freedom. Old tendencies will spiral into awareness opportunities just to test the new relationship, but the frequency, like the spiral, is also rising upward and getting clear and clearer. In fact, revisits to old ways are welcome as the new way is one of vision, clarity, and seeing the big picture. As the child and adult see the old they do so with new eyes, seeing more, and thus, learning more to apply to the moments of living.
The new way of being reveals itself through living it. The growing confidence and sense of adventure steers the unified one through new vistas and playgrounds. The roles are well established so each does what they agree to and are designed to do. Having said that there is always the freedom of choice to do things differently. Sometimes the child wants to kick back and let the adult take over, and, vice versa. Each is capable, as we have established, of functioning as the aware and competent leader. The importance of self care movers each towards recognizing when rest is needed. The open communication and the willingness to continue to use established tools allows free sharing, open discussion, and shared decision making. And because there is the mutual intention to thrive and enjoy this fourth dimensional living, adjustments are welcome and applied, often for the sake of the adventure.
As always, the foundation of the journey of cooperation and mutual serving is awareness. As time and experience move forward the capacity to detect the nuances comes into play. The signals from the physical and other energetic bodies are easily detected quickly and responded to with clarity and efficiency. Having removed the specter of mistakes, each is free to experiment and see what works, then alter the path as desired and decided. In time , the communication can become so refined that each detects the other’s thoughts simultaneously. In this state of flow the magic begins. The border of separateness dissolves and the unification is complete, yet still separate. This means that each is capable of independence when desired or required, but can easily enjoy and embrace the oneness, as well.
Maintenance must be monitored or it will become habit that perpetuates itself as a way of being rather than adjusting to the actual evolution taking place. Regular examinations of progress, issues, failures, etc is necessary to keep in touch with the moments of living. Remember that each impacts the next based on response and decisions. We can constantly recreate ourselves to be that which we currently desire. It is a malleable game that serves the inquisitiveness of the child state. As the adult surrenders the habit of creating comfort and routine the flow is sustained like a perpetual motion machine. Soon, the process of changing becomes a reliable friend who is a constant companion into the unknown.
It really becomes a matter of maintaining the expansion and growth, being willing to evolve into experiencing the dimension in ever revealing new ways. Keeping the heart open, relying more and more on the expansion and utilization of all the senses including the sixth of intuition, taking risks in the name of adventure, choosing to enter new realms of learnings, exploring the variations of nourishing self care, seeing just how grand loving can be, initiating and engaging new relationships with the expanded community of life, inviting the cosmos in to reveal the bigger picture always, calling upon and utilizing the etheric and dimensional guides and teachers, keeping in daily interactive communication with one another…all ways to ride the wave of remembering and awakening to and with one another.
The journey together is about continuing to build upon the foundation of the relationship established thus far. It will be important to keep developing trust, keep establishing reliability between one another, keep reinforcing commitment, keep showing up honestly, keep communicating in the now, keep supporting one another to not hold on to unspoken energy, keep experiencing life’s moments together, keep finding alone time and communicating the need for it, keep learning and applying nourishing and nurturing behaviors towards one another, keep learning new things, keep gaining understanding of old issues, keep monitoring for inner roadblocks, keep being spontaneous and playful, keep exercising and enjoying imagination and wonder, keep working consciously to get really clear, keep loving, keep being grateful, keep asking for help, keep living in this connection no matter the influence, keep trusting life, keep intending your desires, keep receiving with an open heart, keep giving without expectation, keep developing relationship with Higher Self…to name a few.
Stuff will come up. The closer you get the safer you feel. The safer you feel the more likely the deeper energies will start to move to release and clear. The more they release the greater the challenge to flow and embrace and learn, which will test the connection. It is a beautiful process that builds upon itself. Being divinely inspired it is fused in the frequency of Love and is designed to bring the organism back to the pure and natural state of Wholeness. The release of the old personal paradigms is like stripping off a layer of skin. It is fused and embedded and feels like it is being ripped out. This is temporary. Being fully present and allowing and trusting the other to accompany the duration of the experience is critical. Any tendency to abandon the other will be a major setback. So, just do not do it. There are enough tools in place to communicate and share and discuss and decide that you do not have to run away. That is the choice of an old way that is honestly, and accurately, not a part of who you are anymore. Leaps of faith are required all along the journey.
What has occurred so far is a profound beginning that will blossom and thrive the more you each show up. Though you have theoretically have a choice, you really do not. Living in the old way simply does not fit any more and to attempt to do so would be too painful. Welcome to the new world.
