It is all about maintenance, creating a loving life style that consistently cares for the whole self and the Child Within, as well. This is the foundational element of living called self care. When one tends the garden of self, meeting the basic needs and monitoring the expenditure of energies, then one is always in a position of being centered and showing up as such to the moments before him. She can take care of her own needs and thus step aside from the manufactured dependency that passes as relationship for so many.
We are all capable of being aligned. Unprocessed energies around past woundings, subsequent beliefs and thought patterns that resulted, and the visible routine of the comfort zone eddy are all in the way of being fully human in the glorious way, fully in power and experiencing the richness and depth of the blessed moment placed on the altar of awareness.
First one chooses to become a self care practitioner.
Then one addresses basic needs first: food, shelter, safety, hydration, physical contact, love, value esteem, and connection. With these elements in place one can draw upon the inner resources and the cosmic guidance that is available more quickly and easily to be fully present for whoever or whatever.
Not having to depend on others for well being frees you to be in your power, capable of clear choice and decisive action.
With self care as a priority many of the “normal” challenges of life simply do not exist for you.
It always comes down to self love and showing up for you. If, as the adult, it makes it easier to make the child the object of your action and affection, then do it. Ultimately, it is mutually satisfying behavior and choices that sustain, elevate, and empower the both of you, making you a whole expression of the I Am That I Am Expressing as You.
You will have to set up a self care program with the specifics that you both require. Negotiate and move towards win win in this process. It is a bonding experience that sets the stage for a deep fulfilling primary loving relationship between the both of you.
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