Not a defined emotion but it is an issue that resides in some form in most of humanity. Due to the original incarnational issues of loss of conscious Source connection and separation from the perfect nurturing home (womb) we are impacted with the abandonment energy at the onset.
What is underneath this nuance energy is the sense of unworthiness or lack of value. Being left behind, undesirable, alone, or not cherished is part of the wash of issues that can stem from the original dimensional wounding.
It is useful to realize that the shifts at birth that jettison us into our own unique journey are simply part of the design. The shock of leaving what we left is amplified because we are in physical body where so much is felt in new, yet familiar ways. The slap on the hind end that has been a traditional entrance ritual of the Piscean times shocks us into being in body, as if it is not transitionally challenging enough already. So, knowing the source of this ennui and emptiness/longing is actually very important in that it can divert us from the historical assumption that we are not valued or wanted. It is this kind of re-education that gives the inner child license to surrender the controlling belief/pattern that keeps the forms in place.
Most, if not all, healing is an inside job. And in these times it is more about waking up to allow the design to take precedence and thus replace all of the historical gyrations of understanding we tend to carry along…as baggage actually. Understanding the source of what is feeding the belief/pattern/experience is essential to freeing the stuck energy that is attached.
And, like all of these nuance emotions, it comes down to replacing the ignorance with the pure vibration of Love. This is a conscious choice. It involves replacing the loss with the nurturing hands of the adult self in the name of self care in a consistent manner. Understanding the parameters of the dimension frees us up to then provide the care we desire and need. This cleans out the wounds and sets us into a life without the undercurrent of abandonment running the show.
Additionally, it comes down to practicing full bodied awareness as well. Noticing when the feeling of aloneness and emptiness and longing and yearning show themselves, one can turn a loving, compassionate, and understanding hand towards that part of our child calling.
And, finally, especially with this core wounding it is necessary to chose to live in and from the Heart Center. This allows us to choose Love first. Feeling precedes thought in many cases. Learning to think from the heart will allow you to catch the energy of the nuance emotion as it attempts to infiltrate the moment, creating the point of choice where you can divert the flow into the crucible of warm understanding. And, yes, it is a choice that you can make. So choose it from now on… Return to the Main Session Page
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