Some Critical Parent Methods
The critical Parent has some strategies used to compromise the flow and the centering of the inner child. These are used to find fault with the child self to keep him out of imagination, creativity, play, and trust. It is hard for the child to not take on these viewpoints. She must see them for what they are through the process of the adult educating.
The Worrier
This is an obvious effort to paint everything as a challenge or a problem that will end up in a bad or less desirable way. The child who is already feeling fragile can easily lose any confidence and consistently be in an agitated stress state that will eventually compromise the energy bodies, especially the physical.
The Perfectionist
The is the never ending pressure tactic to force the child to always do it better. It is never good enough. The result is unbridled hesitation to take risks and trust anyone or anything.
The Critic
This is the fault finder, the nit picker who looks for the mistake or the flaw. There is incessant comparison to others and most often the child comes out on the less than side of things. This contributes to the child being critical and judgmental of self and others, often with no reason except to temporarily feel better about self.
The Victim
In this framework the child feels that the world is out to get her. Everything happens to him and so life becomes pointless and hopeless. There seems to be no lessening of the pressure and stress of others. The result is being worn down, feeling devalued, and seeing all efforts as hopeless.
The critical parent energy will often develop into personal beliefs that serve to attract opportunities to prove life as so. It is insidious and endless unless there is re-education b y the adult self. This will allow the child to open to other ways and begin to see the truth of their design first instead of the negative side of things.
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